Why do you want a
dog?
It's amazing how
many people fail to ask themselves this simple question before
they get a dog or puppy. Buying a dog because it's 'the thing to
do' or the kids have been pining for a puppy usually ends up being
a big mistake. Sharing your home with a dog can be one of life's
greatest joys. But, dogs require lots of time, affection,
exercise, training and money. Furthermore, dogs are demanding
beings; they have personalities, feel physical pain and have
emotions like loneliness. They develop very strong bonds with
their human keepers.
Are
you and your family ready for that responsibility now?
If you have kids
under six years of age, you might want to consider waiting a few
years before you get a dog. Having a dog in the family requires
children who are mature enough to appropriately interact with a
dog, and be responsible (e.g., knowing that doors and gates cannot
be left open). Also, if you're a student, in the military or
travel frequently for business (or pleasure), you might want to
wait until you are more settled and have more time to spend with
your dog.
Do you
have time for a dog?
Dogs (and
especially puppies) cannot be ignored just because you're tired or
busy. They require being fed and walked (exercised) on a regular
schedule, lots of care and companionship every day of the year.
Many dogs ends up in a shelter because their family didn't realize
how much time it took to properly care for their dog. Leaving a
dog all day either confined or in a backyard is not the answer.
Dogs that are emotionally neglected will show negative behavior.
Are
you prepared to handle special problems that dogs can cause?
Flea infestations,
chewed furniture, stains on your rugs from dogs who aren't yet
"housetrained" and unexpected medical emergencies are unfortunate
but common aspects of dog ownership.
Are
you allowed to have a dog where you live?
Many rental
communities don't allow pets, and those that do often have
restrictions. Make sure you know if dogs are allowed where you
live and that you have written permission to have the dog you want
(e.g., some places won't allow dogs over a certain weight or allow
(certain breeds). You should know what the restrictions are before
bringing your new companion home. If you have roommates, talk it
over, and make sure no one in the house is allergic to dogs or
doesn't welcome a new household member. You will be relying on
roommates to be responsible too.
Are
your home suitable for the dog you have in mind?
Choose a dog
that will be comfortable in your surroundings. Buying an energetic
dog to share your small apartment may not be a good idea. Your dog
will need enough room to move around and play. Giving him/her
enough off-site exercise will require quite a bit of time and
activity on your part.
Who
will care for your dog while you're away?
If you
sometimes travel places where you can't take your canine buddy
with you, you'll need either reliable friends, neighbors and
family members, or the money to pay for a good boarding facility
or pet-sitting service.
Are
you willing to do what it takes to be responsible?
There's
much to being 'responsible' including: obeying community leash and
license laws, keeping identification tags on your dog at all
times, being considerate of your neighbors, making sure your yard
and home are "dog" cleen, and picking up "dog poop"
when taking the dog out for a walk.
So, now the big
question?
Are you prepared to open your home, and your heart,
and care for your new canine family member for the rest of his/her
life? I'm not trying to dissuade anyone from bringing a dog
into their life. But just ask yourself if you can live up to the
above asked questions, if yes, go on and buy yourself a
friend for life, a friend that will never let you down, no matter
what !
 
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